Social Anxiety Blogs

so i talk to people and do a good job at it.. as long as its prepared and i know these individuals wont judge me.. i feel lots of negative vibes from my roommate.. i feel she's constantly watching me.. funny thing is that she also has social anxeity, but she avoids situations and pushes them on.. for example whenever we go out to eat.. i have to tell the waitress wat we want to order...she wont do it.. if i mess up..she'll laugh.. its horrendous. why are people so judgemental of other's performance, when they passing a similar route as them.