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I’m having trouble comprehending how the Military can make me keep an insurance that I don’t want, that is interfering with the quality of my health, well being. I can’t comprehend how “Not active” isn’t enough for the State. The more I think about this, the more it makes me angry, I shouldn’t have to fax them anything, if I don’t want the insurance that should be enough. Then when you consider I don't have the insurance......

I went to have a script filled yesterday, I was told I had another primary insurance, Tri-Care/|Champus……… Now I tried to explain, that I no longer had this insurance…..That I was divorced in Feb 00/ and this man died in August of 00. Yes, we were the best of friends, but.

I called the DEERS program, yes, I still had champus, I gave them the facts, I need to be removed……..They wouldn’t do that without the divorce papers, death certificate, cause Joe had the coverage that left me on, why did he do something nice for me after death, the man always was slow;-D…..But I wanted the other insurance….”Please remove me” no…….Fax a copy of the divorce papers “What is his current address” you morons, he’s dead, I think lot 169 in Smithtown, Long Island, Jesus Christ…….

Then they told me, for a small fee, I could get better insurance…..I grit my teeth, I let them in on a known fact that I don’t want to repeat……….OK, you won’t remove me from your insurance, then tell me what my co-payment is so I can get these drugs “I can’t do that ma’am, it would be fraudulent……..Oh my *****ing God……… I had a pharmacist that I’m acquainted with at K-Mart swipe my military ID “Nope, it’s not active” now, if they know this, why isn’t that good enough.

Now, I called the court house, I need a copy of the divorce papers. It’s only four pages, but there is a glitch, there was never a property settlement, I don’t know how this works, but it could cause some problems. We did this purposely, it was buried, we worked it out amongst ourselves, I now know I got screwed. I tried to explain, if, I still had tri-care, and you’re saying I’m not officially divorced, wouldn’t I have filed for his benefits…….And I wouldn’t have backed off, not in the slightest.

I’m really pissed off at Rite Aid, from what I understand they have been over-riding this “code” for 6 months, they can do it again.
I was told once to file for his benefits, my Mom got in my business, I don’t want to relive it, but it wasn’t good. Let’s just say, if they say we aren’t divorced, officially, and I still have this insurance, I’m going for the benefits he paid for, he had the type that went to the surviving spouse, right now, I can’t think of what it’s officially called.

The last question they had for me “what’s your child's name” I told them, I said, he has a son that’s not mine. That’s when things went haywire…… No more discussion , no more nothing.

I’m going to get the meds, but that’s simply not the point, it seems like their tramping on my rights. I don't like being landlocked.

So, I'm damned if I do, damned if I don't, if I use the insurance they say I have, that I don't have, it would be fraudulent, if I wanted to fax them a marriage license without a divorce record, I could be a bigamist (synopsis of what was said).

So, I wonder would I be in their custody or the states...... This is a crock, if I ever hear "Ma'am" again, I'm going to reach through the phone and choke the.......

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