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9 September 2008 - 6:18pm — Peace_Love

so i talk to people and do a good job at it.. as long as its prepared and i know these individuals wont judge me.. i feel lots of negative vibes from my roommate.. i feel she's constantly watching me.. funny thing is that she also has social anxeity, but she avoids situations and pushes them on.. for example whenever we go out to eat.. i have to tell the waitress wat we want to order...she wont do it.. if i mess up..she'll laugh.. its horrendous. why are people so judgemental of other's performance, when they passing a similar route as them. i have another issue...the funny thing is..i speak 2 languages, english and indian.. when i speak with a person who knows english really well.. my indian accent comes out.. when i speak with a indian persn.. my english accent comes out..has this happend to anyone of u???
is this a phobia..or am I just over thinking it??
thanks and can't wait for ur reply..

amanda

Comments

15 February 2009 - 10:34pm — Olive

Ya, it's pretty brutal when

Ya, it's pretty brutal when your friend/roomate has social anxiety yet she is laughing at you when you make a simple little mistake. That sounds like she's feeding off of your mistake to make herself feel better by laughing at you! You seriously should re think this friendship with this person, because someone who makes you feel worse when you're already hard on yourself is NOT a good friend, or a friend at all. She will just bring you down more, and she kinda sounds like a bitch. But that's just my opinion. I do not speak two languages though, so I'm not sure about that accent thing. BUT you could maybe google that and research it, see if that's a common thing? it quite possibly could be. And now that I think about it, your roomate IS probably constantly watching you, and giving off negative vibes because she feels so down about herself that she actually wants you to do something wrong so that she can be a freaking jerk! I am mad at this person, and I don't even know them! ugh! I hate people like that, I think she needs to find someone else to be her slave to give her dinner orders to! You deserve a better friend then that!!!