help

so i talk to people and do a good job at it.. as long as its prepared and i know these individuals wont judge me.. i feel lots of negative vibes from my roommate.. i feel she's constantly watching me.. funny thing is that she also has social anxeity, but she avoids situations and pushes them on.. for example whenever we go out to eat.. i have to tell the waitress wat we want to order...she wont do it.. if i mess up..she'll laugh.. its horrendous. why are people so judgemental of other's performance, when they passing a similar route as them. i have another issue...the funny thing is..i speak 2 languages, english and indian.. when i speak with a person who knows english really well.. my indian accent comes out.. when i speak with a indian persn.. my english accent comes out..has this happend to anyone of u???
is this a phobia..or am I just over thinking it??
thanks and can't wait for ur reply..

amanda

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