Social Anxiety Blogs

I can identify with what you say as I was out off work for years and without job skills. I did eventually go on a government scheme learning basic computing and realised if I developed good computer skills I'd be concentrating on my work on screen and not so overwhelmed dealing directly with people - it can take a long time and my circumstances were different but it's one possibility ie. Distance learning/online resources to pick up say electronic bookkeeping knowledge or maybe Photoshop skills for graphic design etc.
Was worried also about driving instructor but had a month or 2 between lessons sometimes to help and eventually passed which has been important.
Have a good job now but still very stressful being anxious and often I wish had a job working from home - at the end of the day we all need other people and it's worse to stay in and be isolated than forcing myself into public but still a long way to go...don't know if any of this helps ....

Hi there,
don't give up buddy! If it's one mistake people in precarious situations make it's that they give up!! The trick is not to! I understand it sucks to be around people when you are so anxious wondering what they'll think of you. Negative emotions just creep up your mind and you can't think of anything else but vacating the crowd ASAP; Your palms start to sweat, your armpits start to drip water; problem is every job requires some form of communication! Perhaps you could start off with lonely jobs such a security or maybe even a job as a truck driver. It all depends on your area of expertise however, maybe you could get a better job after being loaned a certain amount for medical help let's say from a close family member. I can't say anything more but just hang in there!! I'm sure things will get better for you. Goodluck!